The “Withdrawer” in the Bedroom: How Conflict Avoidance Kills Intimacy
Are you a “Withdrawer” in arguments? Learn how this attachment style leads to sexual avoidance (“intimacy anorexia”) and how to break the cycle.
Are you a “Withdrawer” in arguments? Learn how this attachment style leads to sexual avoidance (“intimacy anorexia”) and how to break the cycle.
Explore how a lack of personal purpose or meaning can manifest as relationship anxiety, anxious attachment, and a fixation on validation.
Discover what it really means to be a “withdrawer” in a relationship. Learn why people withdraw and how Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) can help.
Explore the two paths of narcissistic avoidance in relationships: the grandiose search for perfection and the vulnerable fear of being exposed.
Feeling pressure in the bedroom? Learn how letting go of the spontaneity myth and embracing responsive desire can reduce performance anxiety and reignite intimacy.
Is it fear of intimacy, ROCD, social anxiety, or avoidant attachment? Our guide helps differentiate these complex patterns to find clarity and the right support.
Can a relationship survive ‘sex addiction’ or compulsive infidelity? Explore a hopeful, realistic path to rebuilding trust and connection using EFT and PSB therapy.
When you discover that your partner has been engaging in secret, compulsive sexual behaviors—what is often referred to as ‘sex addiction’—the ground beneath you shatters. The pain is not just about sex; it’s a profound betrayal that can create deep psychological wounds. Your experience is real, it is valid, and it has a name: betrayal
Struggling with fear of intimacy due to avoidant attachment? Learn how this pattern develops & how EFT can help you build secure, connected relationships. Find hope.
For people and couples who struggle to communicate about their sexual needs, desires, concerns, or dissatisfaction.
For couples and individuals feeling a lack of intimacy, those in sexless or low-sex relationships, or anyone wanting to deepen various forms of connection beyond just sexual intercourse.
For couples reeling from the discovery or disclosure of an affair, seeking a path towards healing, understanding, and potentially rebuilding their relationship.