When Your Porn Use Causes a Crisis of Conscience
Explore why your porn use might not be an “addiction” but a deep moral or values conflict. Learn how shame, not content, is the real issue.
Healing, Not Shaming: Why a Sex-Positive Framework is Essential for Treating ‘Sex Addiction’
Discover how a sex-positive approach to ‘sex addiction’ therapy focuses on healing, health, and empowerment, not shame. Learn why this framework is more effective.
Paraphilia vs. Paraphilic Disorder: Understanding the Important Clinical Difference
What is the difference between a paraphilia and a paraphilic disorder? A compassionate guide clarifies the clinical distinction based on distress and harm.
Can a Relationship Survive ‘Sex Addiction’? A Path to Rebuilding Trust
Can a relationship survive ‘sex addiction’ or compulsive infidelity? Explore a hopeful, realistic path to rebuilding trust and connection using EFT and PSB therapy.
How ‘Sex Addiction’ Impacts a Partner: Understanding Betrayal Trauma
When you discover that your partner has been engaging in secret, compulsive sexual behaviors — what is often referred to as ‘sex addiction’ and what I explore in depth in Understanding Compulsive Sexual Behavior — the ground beneath you shatters. The pain is not just about sex; it’s a profound betrayal that can create deep
What Are the First Steps to Take if I Think I Have a ‘Sex Addiction?’
Think you might have a ‘sex addiction’? My compassionate guide outlines the first steps to take, from acknowledging the problem without shame to seeking help.
High Libido vs. ‘Sex Addiction’: How to Tell the Difference and When to Seek Help
Confused about the difference between a high libido and ‘sex addiction’? This guide helps you understand the signs of problematic sexual behavior and when to seek help.
Beyond the “Addiction” Label: Is Your Deepest Need for Connection Fueling Problematic Sexual Behavior?
Is problematic sexual behavior fueled by unmet needs for connection? Explore an attachment-based view beyond the “addiction” label for deeper healing.
Supporting Your Partner, Supporting Yourself: Navigating a Loved One’s Journey with Compulsive Sexual Behavior.
For partners, spouses, and loved ones of individuals struggling with Compulsive Sexual Behavior (CSB), seeking understanding, coping strategies, and self-care.
Men & Compulsive Sexual Behavior: Understanding the Struggle and Finding a Path to Control & Healthy Intimacy.
For men struggling with compulsive sexual behavior, their partners, and those seeking to understand this issue specifically as it relates to men.